In “Shantaram,” it’s said that fate introduces certain individuals into our lives, one after another. These encounters help us understand who we can and cannot be.
The special people in your life bring good fortune.
Feng Tang noted, “A true benefactor isn’t someone with wealth or power, nor is it someone who can smooth over problems. It’s the person who shines like a lighthouse when you’re lost.” As the old saying goes, “The value of mountains and rivers is less than that of meeting a good person.” Life’s journey is long and fraught with challenges. In this rollercoaster of life, there will be many moments when we feel in the dark. Be grateful for the special people in your life who reach out when you’re down, offer support when you’re stuck, and stand up for you in times of trouble. It’s because of these individuals that you can turn crises into opportunities and repeatedly win the favor of Lady Luck. The greatest luck in life is to meet someone willing to help you when you’re facing adversity.
The difficult people you encounter teach you to grow.
Professor Qi Shanhong once said, “Everyone who enters your life has a purpose. If they hurt you and cause you distress, it’s because they’ve hit a nerve. This pain can lead to enlightenment and personal growth.” There’s no suffering in life without a lesson; every experience imparts some wisdom. When fate intends for you to grow, it will send people or situations that challenge you; it’s a pattern. Some clarity comes from experience, and some wisdom is born from pain. Even negative experiences are unique aspects of your life’s journey.
Every encounter in life is beneficial.
There’s a Buddhist saying: “Whoever you meet is meant to be in your life, not by chance, and they will teach you something.” In this world, every encounter holds meaning, half assisting you and half guiding you. Some believe that every person who comes into your life is a gift from above, just wrapped differently. You need to be patient to unwrap these gifts slowly. In the process, you might feel moved or get hurt. But in the end, all these people become pieces of the puzzle of your life, helping you complete your journey.